Sunday, January 29, 2012

The Deadly Friend Zone (Guys' POV)

     Have you ever sat on the bench during any kind of sports game only to watch your team win and enjoy all the glory? Well that's sort of what the friend zone is like. Us victims of the friend zone are the benchwarmers of the world. We are the ones who are never given the benefit of the doubt from the ones we love in our life even though we have always been the ones there for them most. 

    Generally, victims of the friend zone are really nice people and unfortunately are outnumbered by the more fortunate d0uche bags of society. Girls claim they want to be with the "nice guy" yet time and time again they choose the classic d0uche over the nice guy. Why is that? It's a question I ask myself over and over. Friend zone victims are basically boyfriends without the title of being an actual "boyfriend". We listen to the problems of the one we love, we're there to pick them up when they're down, hangout with them all the time, give them advice, talk to them for hours at a time, and overall just make them genuinely HAPPY! Yet all the d0uche has to do is have "good looks", be cocky, and treat girls badly to win over their hearts. Makes no sense...

    Obviously, I've spent some time in the friend zone (and I still am). It is absolutely TERRIBLE. I've begun to lose all hope of ever finding the girl that I love who will truly see me for who and what I am. It makes me so mad seeing guys that constantly play with girls hearts and break girls' hearts getting second and even THIRD chances when I would kill for just HALF a chance to win over the girl I love. Every night when I'm laying in bed I evaluate myself to try to figure out why I'm constantly being friend zoned by every girl I want to become closer with, but I really can't figure out anything wrong that I'm doing to put me in these situations. I pray for the day when the girl I love calls me up from the bench to win the game or rather..her heart. Unfortunately I don't see that happening in the near future for me as I don't know a single girl that would ever give me that opportunity...

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