Hey peeps! Sorry for not posting since last Thursday, I've been very busy. Anyways, I just want to point out that the rant below is only my opinion, it can and might be completely wrong, but it's basically how I see things from my POV.
Something that all guys in high school wonder is..WHAT THE HECK IS UP WITH GIRLS THESE DAYS?! When we think they're going to do this, they go and do that. When we think they're going to say this, they say that instead! Girls are so confusing, unpredictable, and hard to figure out. Fortunately for any of you guys reading this, I've managed to put together a theory on how a high school girl's mind works!
The mind of a high school girl is a pretty screwed up place if you ask me :P They have so many things going through their minds and their lives are made so much more complicated by their stupid unnecessary drama. If you're a nice guy reading this, tough luck kid, girls these days claim they want you, but they won't pursue you. If you so happen to be a cocky d-bag reading this, CONGRATULATIONS! All the girls want you and will do anything to be with you. Now whoa whoa whoa WAIT A SEC! Didn't I just say all girls want to be with a nice guy? Why do they go for the cocky d-bags that treat them and everyone else badly then? There's one word that can answer all of this. DESIRABILITY.
A girl does desire to be with a nice guy someday, but for right now, her desires are very blinded by many things. She won't go for that nice guy (unless she's smart) right now because he's not DESIRABLE to her. The nice guy is the kind of guy that the girl knows will always be there for her, listen to her, and love her. In short, this guy is very attainable for the girl. However, the girl, for some reason, needs a feeling of fulfillment or a feeling like she conquered something. As a result, she and many other girls will chase a cocky d-bag because that's who is UNATTAINABLE thus making him DESIRABLE.
For me and most guys, we do not see the sense in this at all. Why do you girls need to feel accomplished? If you "loved" this guy for all the right reasons, you would not be looking to get a feeling of "accomplishment" out of it! If that's the case, I believe you need to grow up and stop being immature. I'm sorry, but I don't think girls realize how stupid they look when they all chase the same guy that has nothing special about him and who's not a great guy at all. In fact, this stupidity is a MAJOR turn-off to all the nice guys out there and all that you girls are doing is screwing up your chances to EVER be with a nice guy. SMARTEN UP! Take a step back and realize that chasing the d-bag and trying to win him over is not worth it. Chances are you have a really nice guy that's been right in front of you and has been there for you this whole time that you can be happy with right now.
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